Smiths Friends(Brunstad Christian Church) Womans view

First I'd like to introduce, from time to time I will now write about a Norwegian Cult called Brunstad Christian Church, which has affected my family heavily during the last few decades, and which still does really bad things to many families and parents. This first part is about their female views.

So, this I know mostly as "Smith's Venner"
This is a "Sect", more commonly in my vocabulary referred to as a cult, that scares the living crap out of me. The reason this place scares me is because a good chunk of my family is a member of it. This once included my poor mother, she suffered at their hands for 28 years, being basically an obedient woman

Smith's friends really harasses women too, they say women actually get salvation through children. Which causes women to give birth to their own tiny little armies. My mother actually has 11 siblings, and they shared home with another family of the same cult with 14 children. What more it says is:
- The man is the head of the woman
- The woman should never cut her hair
- The woman is created for the man
- The woman needs to wear a clear sign of submission on her head
- A woman should never Teach
- A good woman is silent and obedient
- A woman should have nice clothing (Sigh.. Really? This obvious that you're horny?)

With this in mind, let me share one thing that happened: A woman that had given birth to many a child. She was once told by her doctor that if she carried another child, she would probably die. What happened next was that her anxiety for hell, caused by this cult, caused her to bear another child, in which she died during Child birth.
According to the author Johan Velten, this is just one of many scary stories of what happend in this horrible cult.

Last, but not least. I would love to say that, the nicest women of all time exist in this sect, and they have reason to shine, not cry. Many women speak loudly about their "Crime" of not being good enough for anyone or anything. These women have a reason to shine, and feel beauty about themselves. But they don't! And that's this cults fault! This includes my grandmother apparently, which makes me sad, because, what I knew of her, she was the nicest woman alive, so nice I could never see her dislike or hate anyone, and never see anyone hate or dislike her.